processing feedback update: successfully processed some of the most detailed feedback I’ve gotten yet!
things that actively helped:
- imagining being a new homunculus (thanks, Olivia Jimenez!)
- externalizing into action items (thanks, Ari Kagan!)
contextual things that seem difficult to replicate, but probably helped:
- I decided on a job, which feels like gain that counterbalances this professional ’loss'
- I went through several days that felt emotionally worse than this and/or I got some emotional/temporal distance